What did Uncle Archer say earlier? Give some thought to forgiveness too, okay? If there’s one characteristic I wish the Story family had more of, it’s that. He was right, but it hits me all of a sudden that he didn’t only mean that we should forgive other people - the way Mildred never could. Based on the exchange he and Oona had earlier, I think he was also talking about forgiving yourself. And you can’t do that without acknowledging you did something wrong in the first place.