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Coming Out: LGBTQ+ Family Resources

While positive environments are important to help all youth thrive, this is especially true for LGBTQ+ children and youth. This list contains resources to help parents and caregivers of LGBTQ+ kids and teens become the best allies they can be for their family members and community. For this list, non-fiction materials such as biographies, memoirs and informational texts will be listed first followed by online and/or local resources.

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  • It's About You Too

    Reducing the Overwhelm for Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids

    Whitmore, Tracy (Social worker),
    With compassion, Tracy guides you through the challenges that can come with raising an LGBTQ+ child, helping you delve into your beliefs, values, thoughts, and emotions, repairing any potential damage to your relationship. This invaluable process…
    Book, 2023[Vancouver, BC] : Tracy Whitmore; [2023] — 306.874 WHI 2023
  • Parenting With Pride

    Unlearn Bias and Embrace, Empower, and Love Your LGBTQ+ Teen

    Hester, Heather
    The ultimate LGBTQ parenting handbook, guiding parents and caregivers through transformative steps of Embrace, Educate, Empower, and Love so they can support their teen with open arms and hearts.
    Book, 2024Reedley, CA : Familius LLC, [2024] — 306.874 HES 2024
  • He/she/they

    How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters

    Bailar, Schuyler,
    Go‑to expert on gender identity, Schuyler Bailar, offers an essential, urgent guide that changes the conversation.
    Book, 2023New York : Hachette Go, 2023. — 306.768 BAI 2023
  • This Is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids

    a Question & Answer Guide to Everyday Life

    Owens-Reid, Dannielle
    Written in an accessible Q&A format, here, finally, is the go-to resource for parents hoping to understand and communicate with their gay child.
    Book, 2014San Francisco : Chronicle Books, 2014. — 306.76608 OWE 2014
  • When Anna Bianchi's grandchild asked, "Nanny, you do know I'm a girl, don't you?", Anna recognised this as a pivotal, and daunting, moment in their relationship. She knew that to answer her grandchild, who had been assigned male at birth, her own…
    Book, 2018London ; Philadelphia : Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2018. — 306.768 BIA 2018
  • Trans Kids and Teens

    Pride, Joy, and Families in Transition

    Nealy, Elijah C.
    A comprehensive guide to the medical,emotional, and social issues of trans kids.
    Book, 2019New York : W.W. Norton & Company, [2019] — 306.768 NEA 2019
  • Queer Adolescence

    Understanding the Lives of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual Youth

    McNabb, Charlie, 1983-
    Personal accounts mingle with factual information and analysis to provide a snapshot of the joys and concerns of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and asexual adolescents.
    Book, 2020Lanham : Rowman and Littlefield, [2020] — 306.76 MCN 2020
  • How to They/them

    a Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns and the World of Gender Fluidity

    Getty, Stuart,
    Ever wonder what "nonbinary" or "gender nonconforming" really means? Why would someone choose to identify that way? And how the heck do you use "they/them" pronouns for a singular person - isn't it supposed to be plural? This charming and disarming…
    Book, 2020Seattle : Sasquatch Books, [2020] — 425.55 GET 2020
  • A quick, easy and important educational comic guide to using gender-neutral pronouns.
    Book, 2018Portland, OR : Limerence Press, 2018. — TEEN 305.3 BON 2018
  • This book is for anyone who wants to learn about asexuality, and for Ace people themselves, to validate their experiences. Asexuality is a real identity and it's time the world recognizes it
    Book, 2022Portland : Oni Press, 2022. — TEEN 306.76 MUL 2022
  • Covering essential topics like sexuality, gender identity, coming out, and navigating relationships, this guide explains the spectrum of human experience through informative comics, interviews, worksheets, and imaginative examples. A great starting…
    Book, 2019Portland, Oregon : Limerence Press, 2019. — TEEN 306.76 G 2019
  • They/them/their

    a Guide to Nonbinary and Genderqueer Identities

    Young, Eris
    Showing what life is like as a nonbinary or genderqueer person, this book explores relationships, mental and physical health, language use and identity and appearance, providing advice for nonbinary people and how friends and family can support them.
    Book, 2019London : Jessica Kingsley Publishers, [2019] — 306.76 YOU 2019
  • Raising LGBTQ Allies

    a Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages From the Playground

    Tompkins, Chris (LGBTQ advocate),
    Raising LGBTQ Allies is the first book to focus on the prevention of homophobia, transphobia, and bullying before they begin. It encourages families to have open and authentic conversations in a practical, timely, and inclusive way. It also creates…
    Book, 2021Lanham, Maryland : Rowman and Littlefield, 2021 — 306.766 TOM 2021
  • Bi

    Bisexual, Pansexual, Fluid, and Nonbinary Youth

    Savin-Williams, Ritch C.,
    Savin-Williams provides an important new understanding of bisexuality as an orientation, behavior, and identity. Bi shows us that bisexuality is seen and embraced as a valid sexual identity more than ever before, giving us timely and much-needed…
    Book, 2021New York, [New York] : New York University Press, [2021] — 306.765 SAV 2021
  • Allies

    Real Talk About Showing Up, Screwing Up, and Trying Again

    Presents a collection of seventeen essays that explore what being an ally is, needing an ally, and showing up for friends and strangers.
    Book, 2021©2021 — TEEN 305 ALL 2021
  • The Care We Dream of

    Liberatory & Transformative Approaches to LGBTQ+ Health

    The Care We Dream Of is not quite an essay collection, and not quite an anthology. Instead, it's a hybrid kind of book that weaves together the author's essays on topics like queering health and healing, transforming the health system, kinship,…
    Book, 2021Vancouver : Arsenal Pulp Press, [2021] — 362.108664 SHA 2021
  • Raising Them

    Our Adventure in Gender Creative Parenting

    Myers, Kyl,
    A sociologist, exploring the science of gender and sex and the adulthood gender inequities that start in childhood, shares the joy of watching her own child develop their own agency to grow happily and healthy toward their own gender and expression.
    Book, 2020New York : Topple Books/Little A, [2020] — 305.3 MYE 2020
  • The Trans Generation

    How Trans Kids (and Their Parents) Are Creating a Gender Revolution

    Travers, Ann,
    As a transgender activist and as an advocate for trans kids, Travers is able to document from first-hand experience the difficulties of growing up trans and the challenges that parents can face. The book shows the incredible time, energy, and love…
    Book, 2018New York : New York University Press, [2018] — 306.768 TRA 2018
  • Growing Up Trans

    in Our Own Words

    What does it mean to be young and transgender today? Growing Up Trans shares stories, essays, art and poetry created by trans youth aged 11 to 18. In their own words, the works illustrate the trans experience through childhood, family and daily…
    Book, 2021[Victoria, British Columbia] : Orca Book Publishers, 2021. — JUV 306.768 GRO 2021
  • A Girlhood

    Letter to My Transgender Daughter

    Hays, Carolyn
    A parent's love letter to a daughter who has always known exactly who she is
    Book, 2022[Durham, North Carolina] : Blair, 2022. — 306.874 HAY 2022