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Consent and Respect

Books introducing consent, bodily autonomy, and respect for children. For this list, board and picture books will be listed first followed by nonfiction resources for kids.

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  • Enhanced with bold illustrations, this book discourages hitting and physical violence through repetitive phrases and easy-to-read text, while demonstrating the many other fun things for which hands can be used
    Board Book, 2006Minneapolis, Minneosta : Free Spirit Publishing, 2006. — BOARD BOOK
  • A children's board book about respecting body boundaries.
    Book, 2018[United States] : Phonics with Finn, [2018] — EASY 158.2 MOR 2018
  • From My Head to My Toes gently introduces young readers to the topics of consent and bodily autonomy in a positive way.
    Book, 2024Holt and Company, Henry 2024. — PIC Rai
  • A little girl finds herself giving hug after hug until, all of a sudden, she's had enough! Just because you say yes once, doesn't mean you have said yes forever.
    Book, 2020Toronto : Kids Can Press, 2020. — PIC Chu
  • A group of underwater friends learn to ask for permission before showing their prickly, pufferfish pal some love.
    Book, 2022New York : Roaring Brook Press, 2022. — PIC Pet
  • Kai, a merboy, loves to share hugs with his mother, but learns that some friends prefer fin bumps, tail claps, tentacle shakes, or claw pinches.
    Book, 2020New York : Dial Books for Young Readers, [2020] — PIC Nei
  • A love bird who doesn't like kisses? Rissy's friends and family wonder if she's sick, confused, or rude. But kisses make Rissy uncomfortable. Can she show everyone there's not one right way to share affection?
    Book, 2021Minneapolis : Carolrhoda Books, [2021] — PIC How
  • Hattie learns to establish her boundaries with confidence and without hurting the feelings of her overly affectionate relatives.
    Book, 2022Minneapolis, MN : Beaming Books, 2022. — PIC Hov
  • When the class pet bites the finger of Penelope, a Tyrannosaurus rex, she finally understands why she should not eat her classmates, no matter how tasty they are.
    Book, 2018Los Angeles ; New York : Disney-Hyperion, 2018. — PIC Hig
  • Doug prefers not to be hugged, but there are a variety of other ways his loved ones can show him affection.
    Book, 2021New York : G.P. Putnam's Sons, [2021] — PIC Fin
  • Illustrations and rhyming text urge children to use their teeth for biting food, not their friends or relatives.
    Book, 2018New York : Atheneum, [2018] — PIC Whe
  • What to Do When You Feel Like Hitting helps toddlers understand why hitting is not okay and shows them how to react with actions that are safe and kind.
    Book, 2021Emeryville, CA : Rockridge Press, [2021] — EASY 155.412 GOO 2021
  • Yes! No!

    a First Conversation About Consent

    Madison, Megan,
    This book serves to normalize and celebrate the experience of asking for and being asked for permission to do something involving one's body. It centers on respect for bodily autonomy, and reviews the many ways that one can say or indicate 'no.'
    Book, 2022New York, [NY] : Rise x Penguin Workshop, 2022. — EASY 613.6 MAD 2022
  • No Means No!

    Teaching Children About Personal Boundaries, Respect and Consent; Empowering Kids by Respecting Their Choices and Their Right to Say, 'no!'

    Sanders, Jayneen,
    This book is about an empowered little girl who has a very strong and clear voice in all issues, especially those relating to her body and personal boundaries. It is a springboard for discussions regarding consent and children's choices and rights.
    Book, 2015Victoria, Australia : UpLoad Publishing Pty Ltd, 2015. — EASY 158.2 SAN 2015
  • My Body! What I Say Goes!

    a Book to Empower and Teach Children About Personal Body Safety, Feelings, Safe and Unsafe Touch, Private Parts, Secrets and Surprises, Consent, and Respectful Relationships

    Sanders, Jayneen,
    The crucial skills taught in this book will help children to protect their bodies from inappropriate touch. Children will be empowered to say in a strong and clear voice, "This is my body! What I say goes!"
    Book, 2016[Macclesfield], Victoria : UpLoad Publishing Pty Ltd, 2016. — EASY 362.76 SAN 2016
  • Our bodies let us know if we feel unsafe or might be in danger and can tell us when we are calm or need healthy touch. In this story, Mr. B helps Deja understand what her body is telling her by asking her to describe what her body is feeling
    Book, 2021Minneapolis, MN : Free Spirit Publishing Incorporated, [2021] — EASY 152.4 BOW 2021
  • Bodies come in all difference shapes, sizes, colours, and abilities. We all have one, and we all have the right to feel good about it, the responsibility to take care of it, and the duty to set and respect boundaries.
    Book, 2022Toronto, [ON] : North Winds Press, 2022. — PIC Gra
  • A story that helps with teaching boundaries to young children.
    Book, 2022Minneapolis, MN : Free Spirit Publishing, [2022] — EASY 155.419 BOW 2022
  • In this sixth book in the We Say What's Okay series, children realize they have agency over their bodies and that they have the power to make decisions for themselves, as well as stay safe
    Book, 2022Minneapolis, MN : Free Spirit Publishing Incorporated, [2022] — EASY 155.4 BOW 2022
  • Under Our Clothes

    Our First Talk About Our Bodies

    Roberts, Jillian, 1971-,
    In this illustrated nonfiction picture book, child psychologist Dr. Jillian Roberts introduces young readers to the ideas of body safety and body image.
    Book, 2019Victoria, British Columbia : Orca Books Publishers, 2019. — EASY 362.76 ROB 2019